You and your partner were brought together for a reason, don’t ever doubt it! Think about it for just one moment, what had to happen just to bring you and your partner together? If you had not arrived at the right place at just the right time, the two of you would never have met. Can you imagine what your life would have been like if you had decided to go to a different mall that day or a different bar with your friends. What if you were sick and never left the house at all on the day when the meeting that would lead to you marriage would never have taken place. You would never have crossed paths with the person that would become your partner forever!
Soak that in for a second, that means you are uniquely you so please do these 2 things. One, do not compare your relationship to anyone else’s or try to be like anyone else. You are the only you so enjoy it and just be the best you that you can be. Second, always remember your own unique strengths. Never, ever allow yourselves to think that the uniqueness is a weakness. Whatever force brought the two of you together did not do this so you could be weak together, of this I am certain.